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Negotiation as Foreplay, presented by Jay Wiseman
Presented By SF Citadel
Thursday, November 16th at 8:00pm PST
Online sale ends: 11/16/17 at 12:00pm PST
SF Citadel
181 Eddy Street
San Francisco, CA 94102
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Good pre-scene negotiations help lay the foundation for a wonderful scene. Rushed or inadequate pre-scene negotiations lay the foundation for a disaster. Self-confessed "negotiation fetishist" Jay Wiseman will present an approach to pre-scene negotiation, in-scene communication, and post-scene feedback that is easy to remember, comprehensive, effective, and "keeps the fun in it."

* Class from 8-10pm, doors open at 7:30pm
* Price: $20 at the door, $15 in advance: https://www.purplepass.com/sfc111617

About the presenter: 

Jay Wiseman has over 40 years of experience in BDSM and was one of the early pioneers and builders of the BDSM community in the San Francisco area. Among other things, he founded two BDSM clubs and was a charter member of a third. He was also a charter member of the Bay Area Dungeon Monitors Association.  He continues to be heavily involved, both in his local area and nationally, as a BDSM author, educator, mentor, workshop leader, video producer, expert witness, and activist.  Noted for being both an exceptionally knowledgeable and highly entertaining presenter, he is very much in demand and has given hundreds of presentations on various aspects of health, relationships, and sexuality in more than 80 cities in the United States and Canada.  

In 2007, Black Rose presented him with the Vaughn Keith National BDSM Educator Award. In February of 2014, The Monarchs BDSM club presented him with a community service award. In October of 2014, The Society of Janus inducted him into their Hall of Fame.

Jay is the author of the frequently recommended book "SM 101: A Realistic Introduction" and the founder of the publishing company that later became Greenery Press.  His book, "Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook" is widely hailed as the book that sets the standard of fundamental knowledge for this practice.  His instructional videos on rope bondage are excellent resources for both beginners and experienced bondage practitioners.  His book “The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies” provides crucial information to both players and dungeon monitors.  He is currently working on a number of books and videos.  

Jay holds a first-degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do, is an on-again, off-again member of Mensa, and lived in San Francisco's Haight-Ashbury district during the Sixties.  A former ambulance crewman with years of experience, and recipient of the highest Red Cross commendation for emergency action, Jay now teaches classes in basic and advanced emergency medical care for BDSM clubs and other groups.  After receiving his law degree in 2005 and passing the California bar exam in 2006, he sometimes works as a part-time law school professor. He is also a certified mediator.  His areas of special legal interest include providing legal support for alternative communities, teaching bar exam preparation, search and seizure law, and conflict resolution.

His website is, predictably, www.jaywiseman.com.  

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8:00pm to 10:00pm
Doors open at 7:30pm

General Admission: $15.00


SF Citadel<br> 181 Eddy Street<br> San Francisco, 94102


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